Can we all find Mr. Happy By Jim Gandolf
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| Bobby Gandolf at the age of 9. |
I have
a great wife, why? I just let positive actions happen. I don’t harp on the negative
action at all. I can say that a lot can happen in your married life; with marriage,
life can so hard to stay together. If your life is a certain balance to make
each other happy. How can you do this action if you don’t even know what make
yourself happy? I feel you have to be happy to make any one happy at all. That
goes for business as well. You cannot even make anyone happy; when you do not
know what happiness is. Do we know what happiness is? Would we even know how to
set goals to happiness? I am a Christian; because of that statement, I give
everyone a chance to succeed around me. That can be a painful transition in
life. I have to plan forgiveness before I even accept a business strategy to my
plan of success within my faith in the Lord. My plan is to accept new ideas as
if I myself had a new idea to present. I have certain people in place to help
make the ideas come to life. My wife is by my side, even if I went with a bad
idea. I had to find my happiness to find out how much I could actually love
her. I have had a life of pain, within pain. I was involved with fake love my whole
life. I was in a spot of misguided love from the start of my own life, from a set
of bad parent planning, to the introduction of bad step parents in the start of
my life. People came into my life like hell fire and would be my help, but beat
me to a place of certain fantasy that this pain would stop one day. I had to experience
of unfortunate life challenges to create a false happiness, which ended up in
very serious emotional lows and false highs. How can one find happiness? That is coming to the reality that you need
more time reliving your own mistakes to find your peace. Repenting took me
almost 45 years to grasp, and finding out why I need to repent on my mistakes.
I did not have a good example of what to do except of what is in the Bible; to
which is a lot of information, which can be misleading if you have the wrong teacher.
I had sports to help me get better and certain positive leaders with no
background checks. I just had to live life. I learned what to do and what not
to do in business from my own mistakes and accepting that I made these
mistakes. I had to do this with relationships as well, in my balance. My
friendships; as in my love life relationships, I had to experience horrible
relationships to understand what not to be in. Then I had to experience positive
and exciting life experiences to understand what I was in at each moment of my
life. I have had to deal with successes in my life to where I can be too happy
to where this happiness would offend others. Each phase of your life can be experienced
with the aura you put out to others. When do you find out what real happiness
is? When you can find peace in your daily life of trials; what are you not
happy with is a starting point. How can you change your unhappiness? I write
out a plan, and as I am writing out my plan I can find peace in what I am searching,
I also try to pray all the time to find my peace. I feel that peace is the life
goal we should search for. Peace and happiness is not in a pill, or a type of false
mystical plant that is grown. This peace is within your own self. If you find
peace destroying others; just remember the phrase, “Every Dog has its Day” and truly
focus on change. I have an older brother that lives on corruption of everyone’s
fantasies. Lies can make you happy if you want to leave all of your boundaries
of sensibility of reason. I have been compared to my older brother my whole
life, and I hate it in ever since of the matter. I have been lied to by my own
father and older brother my whole life, and I can’t be lied to, by one of them for now. The
other (My Older brother is lost in a world of complete deception) to even a
sickness status might even be the reason. No one close to my older brother will
reach out to him because of the burn factor and the mess of lies that one can
create in their own unbalance to reach out havoc on others. One finds happiness
in the balance of moving forward in all apprehensive in a painful past. I say
let it be in your own world and look at the world you have now? Find happiness
in every way you can. What can you do to find happiness? Pray to the Lord is
the very first step, and ask for a road to your own redemption. START RIGHT
NOW, OR START WHEN YOU ARE READY? I AM READY TO GO, ARE YOU? Let’s find Mr. Happy together !
Jim Gandolf
Author : 500 Miles the Book
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